Thanks for the advice so far, it wasn't easy for me to type all that out and i'm sure it's not easy giving advice to somebody you don't even know.
There is no single solution for anything or anything, everybody is different and must find their own way. Touble is im jsut wondering where mine is, I am just going to stop looking, live for the here and now, be happy with the way I am now, anything that comes after will just be a bonus.
Slightly off topic, i was talking to my workmate (47 yr old, i get along with adults so much better/easier than with younger people) he was telling me about a bit of his life, he said that if he could go back and take a chance on a women (was about 30 at the time so not that long ago in the scheme of things) half his problems would be gone just like that, he is now divorced (different lady) and works full time (7 days a week, 2 jobs just to take his mind of things, while still caring for 2 older sons (18 and 26 i think?), i just don't plan on ending up like that.
Thanks again for the replies and any more to come, i think i'm going to go read a bit of a book now (tomorow when the war began series) have some dinner, try and be in bed before midnight and forget about things for awhile.
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